Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In

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• Roger Fisher, William L. Ury, and Bruce Patton
  The authors present principled negotiation as an alternative to soft and hard bargaining. They organize the book around interests, options, objective criteria, BATNA, and practical responses to difficult tactics.
• Soft negotiator
  An archetypal negotiator who seeks harmony by making concessions. The role illustrates how avoiding conflict can lead to exploitation, resentment, and weak agreements.
• Hard negotiator
  An archetypal negotiator who treats negotiation as a contest of wills. The role illustrates how positional pressure provokes resistance, inefficiency, and damaged relationships.
• Principled negotiator
  The book’s model negotiator, who separates people from problems, focuses on interests, invents options, and insists on objective criteria. This figure also responds to power imbalances, refusal to cooperate, and dirty tricks without abandoning fairness.
• Customer
  An illustrative haggler in the secondhand-store example. The customer’s offers and concessions show the familiar mechanics and limits of positional bargaining.
• Storekeeper
  The customer’s counterpart in the secondhand-store example. The storekeeper’s counteroffers help demonstrate how positional bargaining becomes a back-and-forth contest.
• United States
  A party in the Kennedy-era nuclear test-ban talks and other international examples. Its role illustrates how fixed positions, BATNA analysis, and objective standards affect high-stakes negotiation.
• Soviet Union
  The counterparty in the test-ban example. Its insistence on a different inspection number helps show how positional rigidity can block more useful inquiry into underlying interests.
• Jones
  A union worker who believes foreman Campbell is assigning him undesirable work. His misunderstanding illustrates how perception can turn a people problem into a negotiation obstacle.
• Campbell
  Jones’s foreman, who assigns him key replacements as a sign of trust. His role shows how intentions and perceptions can diverge unless they are discussed directly.
• Union leader
  The mediator-like figure who confronts Jones and Campbell. By exposing the misunderstanding, the union leader demonstrates the value of separating perceptions from the substantive problem.
• Commissioner Thompson
  A state insurance commissioner who reacts defensively to proposed regulatory changes. His example shows how ego, face, and perceived attack can derail substantive discussion.
• Ms. Monteiro
  An insurance company lawyer whose approach triggers Commissioner Thompson’s defensiveness. She illustrates the need to handle relationship and face concerns alongside the merits.
• Anwar Sadat
  The Egyptian leader used in examples about changing perceptions and the Camp David negotiations. His sovereignty interest over Sinai helps illustrate the difference between positions and underlying interests.
• Menachem Begin
  The Israeli leader in the Camp David example. His security interest is reconciled with Egypt’s sovereignty interest through demilitarization.
• Librarian
  The problem-solver in the window dispute. By discovering the patrons’ interests rather than accepting their positions, the librarian creates a solution that satisfies both sides.
• Man wanting window open
  One party in the library example whose stated position is to open the window. His underlying interest is fresh air, which can be met without imposing a draft on the other patron.
• Man wanting window closed
  The other party in the library example whose stated position is to close the window. His underlying interest is avoiding a draft, which becomes compatible once the real concerns are identified.
• Tenant
  An illustrative party in examples showing that rent is not the only interest in a landlord-tenant negotiation. The tenant may value stability, maintenance, and predictable treatment.
• Landlord
  The tenant’s illustrative counterpart. The landlord may share interests in stability, timely payment, and building value, showing how apparently opposed positions can conceal compatible concerns.
• Mayor of Pageville
  The public official in the Townsend Oil example who seeks higher taxes. His broader interest in economic growth allows the dispute to be reframed toward mutual gain.
• Manager of Townsend Oil
  The company representative worried about tax increases in Pageville. By exploring shared goals, the manager can move from resistance to creative tax and growth options.
• House owner
  The party in the foundation-depth dispute who relies on safety standards. The house owner illustrates why objective criteria are preferable to bargaining over matters such as structural safety.
• Contractor
  The house owner’s counterpart in the foundation example. The contractor’s proposed shallow foundations are challenged through independent safety criteria rather than positional horse-trading.
• Indian representative
  A participant in the Law of the Sea seabed-mining fee example. The representative’s position changes after an MIT model shows the practical consequences of a high upfront fee.
• United States representatives
  Participants in the seabed-mining example who initially oppose an upfront fee. Their eventual willingness to accept some fee shows how objective analysis can move both sides.
• Enterprise
  The U.N.-owned seabed-mining body in the fair-procedure example. It benefits from a procedure in which a private company proposes two sites and the Enterprise chooses one.
• Private mining company
  The counterpart to the Enterprise in the seabed-mining allocation procedure. Because it must offer two sites and let the Enterprise choose, it has an incentive to make both options attractive.
• Tourist
  An illustrative buyer whose apparent wealth does not guarantee bargaining power. The tourist examples show that alternatives and information can matter more than resources.
• Vendor
  The tourist’s market counterpart, who may have multiple possible buyers. The vendor demonstrates how a strong BATNA can create real negotiating power.
• Small Town
  A party that strengthens its leverage against a corporation by developing alternatives such as annexation and taxation. Its example shows that power can be built by improving BATNA.
• Corporation/Factory Owner
  The apparently stronger counterpart to the Small Town. The example shows that visible size or wealth may matter less than the practical alternatives available.
• Labor Union
  An example of a party that can improve leverage by clarifying alternatives such as strike, mediation, or work-to-rule. It also appears in discussions of entrenched adversarial bargaining.
• Power Company
  A counterpart whose BATNA may need to be changed by outside action such as a lawsuit. The example shows how altering the other side’s alternatives can bring it to the merits.
• Community Group
  A party that may use litigation to affect the Power Company’s BATNA. Its role illustrates how a weaker side can create leverage without abandoning principled negotiation.
• Frank Turnbull
  The tenant in the rent-control overcharge case. He uses negotiation jujitsu, questions, standards, appreciation, and clear consequences to move a hostile landlord toward agreement.
• Mrs. Jones
  Frank Turnbull’s landlord, initially defensive and positional. Her eventual agreement to reimburse the overcharge and coordinate move-out shows how resistance can be redirected.
• Paul
  Turnbull’s roommate and affected co-tenant. He functions as a constituency whose interests Turnbull must consider in the rent-overcharge negotiation.
• Architect
  The mediator figure in the one-text procedure example. By drafting and revising a single proposal, the architect helps conflicting spouses move away from positional plans.
• Husband
  One spouse in the house-design example. His role shows how a party can shift from defending a position to critiquing and improving a shared draft.
• Wife
  The other spouse in the house-design example. Her participation in the one-text procedure illustrates how iterative criticism can replace positional bargaining.
• Neville Chamberlain
  A historical example used to illustrate the danger of yielding to escalating demands. His role supports the authors’ warning against appeasing manipulative tactics.
• Adolf Hitler
  A historical example of a negotiator who raises demands after apparent agreement. He is used to show why escalating tactics should be named and resisted on principle.
• Prime Minister of Malta
  An example of a negotiator who reopens issues and escalates demands during base-rights talks. The case illustrates how positional pressure can be countered by addressing the tactic itself.
• Good-guy/bad-guy team
  A paired hard-bargaining tactic using contrasting personalities to induce concessions. The book advises neutralizing it by asking for principled justification rather than reacting to the performance.
• Young lawyer
  A salary negotiator who argues from current, local market standards. The example shows how fairness can be debated through relevant objective criteria.
• Hiring partner
  The law firm representative in the salary example. The partner’s weaker benchmarks prompt discussion of which standards are most legitimate and applicable.
• General Motors
  An example of an organization shifting gradually from adversarial bargaining toward problem-solving. Its role shows that entrenched negotiation habits may take multiple cycles to change.
• United Auto Workers
  General Motors’ union counterpart in the labor-management example. The union’s role illustrates the difficulty and value of moving from positional bargaining to joint problem-solving.
• Tourist rug buyer
  A buyer who exploits a family selling a rug and later feels revulsion. The example warns that unfair windfalls can carry moral, relational, and reputational costs.
• Terrorists/Hijackers
  Extreme counterparts discussed in the chapter on dealing with people. They illustrate the authors’ claim that negotiation is not capitulation when bounded by principles and BATNA analysis.
• Algerian mediators
  Third parties who facilitate U.S.–Iran talks leading to hostage release. Their role supports the argument that communication through intermediaries can serve interests without surrendering principles.
• Third-party neutral
  A mediator, recommender, or facilitator used when direct talks stall. This role appears in one-text procedures, fair processes, and last-chance recommendations.
• Constituents
  The audiences each negotiator must satisfy or persuade. Their concerns shape what proposals are acceptable and how agreements must be justified.
• Station manager and one-third owner
  A radio-station seller who initially demands a high price but values continued management and ownership. Her real interests allow the buyer to design a less costly, more attractive deal.
• Businessman
  The radio-station buyer who uncovers the station manager’s underlying interests. His example shows how interest power can create value and reduce price conflict.
• Elderly patient
  A patient who initially refuses transfer because of abandonment fears. Her example shows how active listening can uncover concerns that block agreement.
• Medical intern
  The caregiver who listens to the elderly patient and identifies her underlying fear. By addressing that concern, the intern secures consent to transfer.
• U.N. Security Council
  An example used to show the importance of clear commitments. Its sanctions on Iraq are described as less persuasive because relief terms are ambiguous.
• Saddam Hussein
  The target of the U.N. sanctions example. His role illustrates how unclear incentives can reduce the effectiveness of commitments.
• President Ronald Reagan
  His impending inauguration creates a fading opportunity in the Iran hostage negotiations. The example shows how deadlines can affect bargaining choices.
• Iranian authorities
  Negotiators in the hostage-release timing example. Their actions illustrate how changing circumstances and deadlines can influence agreement.

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